Focus on Learning Data Management That Directly Connects to Dating
Focus on Learning Data Management That Directly Connects to Dating
It’s certainly possible to learn computer science on your own, without attending a university.
However...
First, Learn Mathematics
If you are thinking of studying computer science, I want to emphasize one crucial point: you should first focus on learning mathematics thoroughly. Mathematics is more than just a set of calculation techniques; it’s a vital tool for developing logical thinking and problem-solving skills, which form the foundation of computer science. Even if someone tells you, "You don’t need math," or "Math is too hard, so you should avoid it," you should not listen to such advice. In fact, following that kind of thinking might limit your learning path in the long run.
If you look at university computer science curricula, you’ll see that a significant portion of the courses—often the ones with the most hours—are math-related. Understanding core computer science concepts such as programming, data structures, and algorithms requires a solid grasp of mathematics. For example, evaluating the efficiency of an algorithm demands mathematical analysis skills, and fields like database design or machine learning are fundamentally built upon mathematical theories.
That’s why taking the time to study mathematics deeply is actually the most effective way to learn computer science both efficiently and profoundly. A strong foundation in mathematics equips you with abstract thinking skills and the ability to approach complex problems calmly and logically. These abilities will help you navigate and overcome the challenges you’ll encounter in computer science.
Ultimately, learning mathematics is not just about acquiring technical skills—it’s a major step toward becoming a more creative and capable engineer or researcher by broadening your thinking and perspective.
That said, there is one crucial thing you should never lose sight of as you study mathematics and computer science.
And that is...
What Really Matters Is Connecting Your Learning to Dating
There’s a big gap between simply learning Data Management and truly connecting that learning to dating.
Learning Computer Science on your own is often enough—but trying to figure out how to connect that learning to dating all by yourself is, in fact, a waste of effort when you consider the essence of dating itself. We hope you’ll realize this as early in life as possible.
For now, we’ve gathered some resources for you below. But if you’re interested in focusing on learning that directly connects to dating, please check the guidance at the bottom of this page.
Learning Resource
Database Systems: The Complete Book, 2nd edition

Published by Pearson (June 5, 2008) © 2009 Hector Garcia-MolinaJeffrey D. Ullman Stanford UniversityJennifer Widom
Database Design for Mere Mortals: 25th Anniversary Edition, 4th edition

Published by Addison Wesley (July 14, 2021) © 2021 Michael J. Hernandez
Designing Data-Intensive Applications, 2nd Edition

by Martin Kleppmann, Chris Riccomini Released December 2025 Publisher(s): O'Reilly Media, Inc. ISBN: 9781098119065
Database Design and Relational Theory Normal Forms and All That Jazz

© 2019 Authors: C. J. Date
Fundamentals of Data Engineering

by Joe Reis, Matt Housley Released June 2022 Publisher(s): O'Reilly Media, Inc. ISBN: 9781098108304
SQL Antipatterns

by Bill Karwin Released June 2010 Publisher(s): Pragmatic Bookshelf ISBN: 9781680504804
SQL Performance Explained Everything Developers Need to Know about SQL Performance

Markus Winand
Database Internals

Released Publisher(s): O'Reilly Media, Inc.
Designing Machine Learning Systems

by Chip Huyen Released May 2022 Publisher(s): O'Reilly Media, Inc. ISBN: 9781098107963
The Data-Centric Revolution: Restoring Sanity to Enterprise Information Systems

Dave McComb
【Important】 For Those Who Want to Enjoy a Life Without Struggling to Find Dating Partners
There are many people out there who, despite learning Data Management, waste their time by studying in a way that fails to connect their knowledge to creating meaningful shared experiences through dating.
We, on the other hand, have dedicated ourselves to learning in ways that truly connect to creating meaningful shared experiences through dating, and as a result, we’ve been able to enjoy a life where we never struggle to find dating partners.
Would you like to join us at the Dating University and focus on learning that directly connects to creating meaningful shared experiences through dating—and enjoy a life where dating partners are never in short supply?
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If that’s how you feel — yet your daily life still feels stuck or unfulfilled — you’re not alone.
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Let us help you explore how the right kind of learning can turn dating into something natural — and transform your everyday life.